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Post by naiwen on Aug 19, 2022 14:01:27 GMT -5
Yes I do. I believe a 40-90-100 year old has nothing to do with a 20-30 year old or a 18-19 year old. They have nothing in common so to speak So, how do they keep the relationship interesting? And the older man or woman will become uninteresting for the younger male or female partner in the relationship after a while. At least, that's what I've seen in most relationships like this one. How about you? How do you feel about it in your opinion?
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Post by SafeInSanity on Aug 20, 2022 7:59:45 GMT -5
If both are warm and intelligent people than age should't be a big problem.
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Post by speaks on Aug 21, 2022 18:37:14 GMT -5
I’ve dated someone 14 years older than me before.
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Post by heeeyyy on Aug 21, 2022 18:40:09 GMT -5
Maxwell Caulfield and Juliet Mills are 20 years apart. They married when he was only 20 and she was 40. They are still married 40 years later.
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Post by Lynx on Nov 4, 2022 11:15:57 GMT -5
naiwen, SafeInSanity, speaks, heeeyyy, There is no set rule or answer. Everyone is different and every situation is different. I can understand a, let's say, Mick Jagger with a woman 30 or 40 years younger because he is a youthful person with younger ideas. The problem lies when the person is strictly attracted to the physical being of the person......physical attraction is temporary, lust is temporary, sex does not take up an awful lot of time in a person's day, week, month, or year.......Conversation is the key. If you can have hours of meaningful conversation with a person, no matter the age difference, then you are set......if not, don't go any further.
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Post by SafeInSanity on Nov 4, 2022 11:30:57 GMT -5
naiwen, SafeInSanity, speaks, heeeyyy, There is no set rule or answer. Everyone is different and every situation is different. I can understand a, let's say, Mick Jagger with a woman 30 or 40 years younger because he is a youthful person with younger ideas. The problem lies when the person is strictly attracted to the physical being of the person......physical attraction is temporary, lust is temporary, sex does not take up an awful lot of time in a person's day, week, month, or year.......Conversation is the key. If you can have hours of meaningful conversation with a person, no matter the age difference, then you are set......if not, don't go any further. Talk is cheap! .. bring on the sex! 😀
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Post by gibby on Nov 4, 2022 12:08:25 GMT -5
naiwen , SafeInSanity , speaks , heeeyyy , There is no set rule or answer. Everyone is different and every situation is different. I can understand a, let's say, Mick Jagger with a woman 30 or 40 years younger because he is a youthful person with younger ideas. The problem lies when the person is strictly attracted to the physical being of the person......physical attraction is temporary, lust is temporary, sex does not take up an awful lot of time in a person's day, week, month, or year.......Conversation is the key. If you can have hours of meaningful conversation with a person, no matter the age difference, then you are set......if not, don't go any further. looks dont last
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Post by Dazzal on Nov 4, 2022 16:03:35 GMT -5
I agree with Lynx, It depends on the situation. If I were to do it over again, I would marry someone close to my age. My husband is 11 years older than I am. He has some health issues and now I am doing most everything around the house and outside. I love him and am happy to help him out. But, when you meet someone, you really don't think about 20 or 30 years from now. In some respects, the age difference does make a difference. Sex is nice, but it's not everything.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 11, 2022 21:40:04 GMT -5
My wife is 6 years younger then me and age was not important when we started dating and got married. My brother in law is 53 and his wife is in her 70's a year younger then his mother, my mother in law. Not my cup of tea but if they are happy then so be it.
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